pictures from grandpa/grandma's visit

Mom and Dad came down for a visit last week and here are a few pictures from our time together. We didnt do much, just played outside at various parks, went to 4 tball games, fished, swam, played games and read books. No grand adventures to one of the theme parks, but simple adventures around Round Rock. Enjoy :)

H and I on his 5th birthday! 

Me and Judah :)

Cutest cub ever. 

playing catcher! he tagged each person who came across home plate...but never had the ball. whoops :)

Painting pottery with G &G! The "artists" refused to look away from their masterpieces.

H sure does love his grandpa.

throwing rocks into the creek at old settlers!

my baby boy melts my heart. 

H showing off his rocks.

Bluebonnets :) 

oh boy.

love this.

Judah hasnt quite mastered the tongue roll yet.

he too melts my heart....wrapped around his tiny little finger. 

time with grandpa=lots of shoulder rides and  LOTS of giggles.

Mount Bonnell! 

Me and my men. 

this man  still melts my heart too. 

h was feeling photogenic at mt bonell

and this is why he gets what ever he wants...because he gives me that look.

climbing around above lake austin.

fishing at lake pflugerville!

H's first fish!

Justin showing Hunter how to remove the fish from the hook,

time to cast again!

J is a master caster

Grandpa caught a fish too :)

Justin and Judah getting grandma's fish off the line.

His expressions are priceless. this is quintessential  judah caught on  "film"

H, J, Mom and I walked the rest of the way (2.5 miles) around the lake to swim :) oh yes, we swim in open water on April 2nd.

h LOVES the water.

my sweet baby boy. 

2 seconds later H jumps up and bonks judah's seat and they proceed to laugh for 10 minutes. LOVE THEM. 

I loved having mom and dad here and loved watching them interact with the boys. H and J are so fortunate to have 2 sets of such incredible grandparents. We are so blessed.

an almost perfect evening

The only thing that would have made this evening better would have been for Justin to have been with us...other than that it was pretty spectacular.

I worked remotely today-mostly from the cozy chair of a local coffee shop-in an attempt to knock out a good portion of my staff performance evaluations. This task=successful. 12 out of 18 mostly done.

I picked the boys up, we ran home to pick up the dogs and load bikes in my saturn (yes, be impressed that it was 2 bikes, 2 boys, 2 dogs and me all loaded in my car) and hurried off to old settlers park for a bike ride/blue bonnet photo op. Enjoy the pics :)

significance of this photo-A CREEK FULL OF RUSHING WATER. so thankful for the recent rain !!!

Biking at old settlers-judah is up around the corner

I tell the boys to smile and this is what they give me. 

to which i reply-what are you doing?!? smile for real...and then they give these equally fake smiles

and then hunter becomes an angry squirrel. Justin has a picture that looks a lot like this...he looks more and more like his daddy every day.

I cannot resist that smile. 

Or that giggle. where has time gone? my baby has turned into a 5 year old ! (ok, well he will be 5 in  31 hours.)

His baby blues make me melt.

this is quintessential judah-love this. love this. love this.

me: judah dont pick the bluebonnets.
judah: you mean like this one? 

sneaky little buggers. i turn around to make sure the dogs are still there and they both picked one. now they owe the state of texas 50 cents.

they love each other and laugh constantly...they only stop laughing to argue.

cant you just hear him laughing?!

love them to pieces.

Love the beautiful fields of texas blue bonnets. 

confessions of a mother

I feel as if I must confess sneaky things I do because my sons are too young to catch on:

1. I rig the deck when playing games such as candy land...mysteriously only the double colors and picture cards end up in the pile. And wow, amazing how your bingo card fills up in perfect order...lucky.
2. I often substitute bubbles for shampoo. 
3. I have convinced the boys that it is perfectly normal for girls to not eat meat...just so they cant say to me, "you aren't eating meat, why do i have to eat all my salad."
4. in the winter, when it is dark out early, i sometimes tell them that its bed time at like 745. this does not work well anymore because hunter can read the clock, which requires one moves the clock ahead one hour.
5. dessert often equals 1 jelly bean
6. h & j think all boys have to kiss their mom's goodbye, and hello, and goodnight, and any other time their mom asks for a kiss.
7. i have convinced them that only moms drink mountain dew, so they are to tell me anytime daddy sneaks some of my drink...and they are sworn to secrecy if i sneak some of his coke. 
8. my sons find it completely normal that i dont touch bugs, or lawnmowers, or broken stuff.
9. occasionally i flip 3 or 4 pages of a book at one time. again, not working so much anymore.
10. i have taught the boys that police officers can come to our house and get them if they are too noisy or dont listen after the 22034th time i have said to do something
11. i tell the boys that bugs will grow in their ears if they dont clean them-or that bugs will eat their teeth if we dont brush them
12. you are never allowed to body slam mommy. ever. 
13. if you go into a parking lot without holding a hand, you will certainly be hit by a garbage truck.. instantly
14. it is always a good idea to pick a flower for mom, or 23 flowers
15. sometimes i "forget" what they ask for, especially when it's that 3rd cup of milk an hour before bed or something similar 

one day they may look back and be horrified i filled their minds with such atrocities...and i will simply reply, "oh just wait until you have beasts of your own." 

hi, i'm rachael and i am the mother of 2 boys

Hi, I'm Rachael. I am 27 years old. I have been married for 6 years and I have 2 sons. My oldest son is named Hunter and the younger is Judah. And I am content in only having 2 boys.

I have found the past few days and weeks that an unusually large number of people have asked me if Justin and I were really done having kids. I dont know why, perhaps spring is in the air and people are in the breeding mood...whatever it is, I am flabbergasted. Beyond the fact that it is weird that I have gotten this question so often recently is the fact that probably 75% of the people who have asked me are almost sad for me when I say, "oh hell yes, we are done having children." At first I thought it was the absolute finality in my response that catches them off guard, but then I get the "but you dont have a girl yet! Dont you want to try for that girl?!?" to which i reply, "no." to which the hardcore inquirers retort back with, "oh come on, you know you would have so much fun with a girl." to which my final response is, "yep, probably would...however that requires i risk the chance of getting another boy and I'm not one of those girls who really LOVES babies. so, nope, we're good with 2. and it just so happens they are both the same gender." end of conversation.

Now, i will admit...there was a point about 2 years ago when i toyed with the idea of "trying for the girl" but after realizing my husband's great desire to only have 2 children (regardless of gender-well, he says that but I do wonder if he would have pushed for a third if we had had 2 girls instead) I came to the point of saying, "these are the 2 incredible babies God has given me and rather than wishing for what i dont have, I will embrace the 2 I do have." And with that, I experienced a new found freedom knowing that I could truly get rid of baby stuff and reclaim my body as my own as it would not be used as an incubator or snack station again. what a glorious freedom this has been.

I will also admit that occasionally I do wonder what it would be like to have a girl or girls instead of the 2 beasts upstairs, however i love being a mother to boys because:

1. wrestling is way more fun than tea parties
2. mud beats makeup any day of the week
3. i get to teach them how to respect women
4. marvel comics are way cooler than barbies
5. teaching them about bugs is met with "awesome!" rather than "yuck" 
6. when one of the bugs i say yuck to is found in the kitchen they argue about who gets to pick it up and flush it down the toilet
7. clothes are something required when leaving the house rather than a huge ordeal in making sure one has the most fashionable outfit on
8. when they will go hunting with their dad, i will have oodles of me time
9. baseball trumps dance
10. encouraging your son to go ask that girl to the prom is probably way easier than explaining to a girl why that boy didnt ask her to the prom
11. picking out a tux is a whole lot more simple than buying a prom or wedding dress
12. no one will ever tell me my toenail polish is a hideous color
13. i dont have to buy cars2 and tinkerbell clothes, i can utilize hand me downs. 

and finally-the most important-in a house with 3 boys and myself it is an unspoken rule that mama is queen, and no one will ever challenge my place on that pedestal.

So, this is the end of "i only have 1 gender represented in my children" therapy session.  thanks and join me again next week for the therapy session titled: "yes, i grew up in minnesota but that doesn't mean i think 40 degrees is warm ."

to all you single parents out there...

This post is aimed at you single moms (or dads) out there. This is me bowing down to you. This is me being awestruck by your incredible ability to raise a child or children alone.

Tuesdays/Thursdays and many weekends throughout the year I am a single mother. The boys and I do not see Justin on Tues/Thurs because he leaves the house at 6am, works for 17 hours and comes home around 12am. (How he works that many hours in one day baffles me, but he has done it since hunter was born and so I guess he is just used to it) So on these days i am responsible for getting up, getting myself ready, the boys up and ready, lunches packed and out the door by 730am. we head to my in-laws (3 miles east of our house) and drop off Judah, turn around and go 7 miles west to hunter's school and drop him off, then hop on the highway and sit in outrageous traffic to go the 20 miles south to work. i work for about 8 hours and then hop in the car, drive the 20 miles north in terrible, but not as horrendous, traffic to pick up h from school, drive the 7 miles to gather judah and then on days like today rush over to tball practice, get home at 715 to let the poor dogs out, feed the beasts supper, play with dogs, get boys ready for bed, read stories, tuck in and then wait for them to fall asleep. oh, and then i have to do laundry, do the dishes and perhaps, just maybe find 10 minutes for myself.
I do this routine (well, the tball isnt every tues/thurs) 2 days a week...some people do it 7 days a week. i dont know how. how do you maintain sanity? i am in complete awe of you do it single parents. well done, i am impressed.

Go Cubs!

Tonight was a momentous occasion in the James household. Tonight was the first practice of the U6 Cubs t-ball team! I was nervous going into it because well, h didnt have the most spectacular try out and I didnt want him to be that kid on the team who was lacking in skills. luckily, I had nothing to worry about as a few of the other younger kids are in the same skill-level he is. I think he is the youngest on the team-Hank who is the 2nd youngest has his by 13 days-and there are some very obvious 6 year olds who not only look much more mature, but also have much better skill sets. H took to the coach (Travis) really well and had a great time playing catch with Hank and got to be buddies with Zach during the rotation time.
Highlights:
1. I think most of the moms are working moms-this is nice, because we all came to practice tired from running kids around and all mentioned having valentine parties today at the boys' schools. interestingly enough, 5 of the moms are teachers/counselors at RR ISD schools.
2. I think its funny that when i mention i work at the blood center, everyone (ok not everyone, but a large percentage of people) reply with "oh, interesting. i really need to go give. i think i am O+"
3. Judah found a buddy. Zach's 2 year old brother and Judah had a blast running around together. And i enjoyed chatting with their mom-Lauren. Oh, and Hank's mom who thought it would be a good idea to try for that girl after 2 boys and ended up with twin boys...case and point on why i am not trying for that girl.
4. My baby is grown up. He loved playing out under the lights tonight and had a huge smile on his face most of the time.
5. I realized this was the first of what will end up being HUNDREDS of baseball practices over the course of the next 12-14 years and i am excited.
Here are a few pictures of the event-pardon the fact that they are crap but i took them on my phone and my phone is crap so what can you expect.

1st team meeting...agenda:learn the other boys' names. 

Hunter and Hank during warm ups

Hunter said hitting the ball during rotation time was his 2nd favorite of the practice-his most favorite was running the bases because he could show the other boys how fast he was. 

After practice we played a few minutes on the playground. Doesn't he look so old?!?

When we got in the car to go home H said, "lets call dad. i need to tell him all about how awesome baseball is." this melted my heart and when i was putting him to bed he said, "I had an awesome time at baseball tonight and i can't wait to go back again." success.

PS.  Happy Valentines day!